Seeing You With A Perpetrator Hurts. Here's Why.
Author: Grace Catan Grace is a survivor who has something to ask of you: she's asking you not to spend time with people who have abused me or your any other survivor you know. And she's also telling you quite a lot about why. I’m a survivor of sexual assault , and I have something to ask of you. I’m asking you not to spend time with people who have abused me or your any other survivor you know. “It’s complicated,” you might say. I get it: it’s complicated for me, too. But stick with me until the end of this piece and listen to what I have to say about the impacts of your actions on survivors. Then, you can make your own decision. We're using the word "abused" as an umbrella that refers to all types of sexual and power-based violence, including but not limited to sexual harassment, assault, and abuse . Regardless of how "small" or "big" your experience with sexual violence is, this article includes survivors (and supporters...